You’re the Prize!

15 Apr
I read a tweet yesterday about a woman not having to wonder, pray, speak in tongues, etc to know if a man wants her. He’ll tell her. This tweet disturbed me! I’ve heard such sayings before & I’ve even said similar quotes myself, but this time, I was disturbed. Let me explain why….

Such statements represent the mental and spiritual position of Women in this day and time. The statement suggests that Women are so desperate for the companionship of a Man that we must wonder if he’s interested, if he’ll call, etc. It suggests that Women are now viewing themselves, not as the Prize (in which you are), but as the Option. You are nobody’s option! It represents just how out of position Women are today. Options wonder and ponder, but the Prize waits for the pursuit of the Winner.

Additionally, we have gotten into this place of compromise and settling when it comes to the things of GOD. Yes, I’m aware that there may be a shortage of [black] eligible men in the world today, but what does that have to do with what GOD said about YOU??? There may be a shortage of eligible men in our country, but there is no shortage of the Man that GOD says is for YOU. Where is your belief, Woman of GOD? Moreover, we’ve allowed such statements as the above referenced tweet to make us feel like we shouldn’t be praying about Love and Relationships. THAT IS A LIE! God is concerned about EVERY area of our lives, and Women had better be praying, believing GOD, speaking in tongues, and declaring what thus sayeth the LORD when it comes to Love and matters of the heart! We’re not praying with wonder or uncertainty, but we’re praying for Wisdom and discernment. We’re praying for revelation. We’re praying for healing, for men and for us. We’re praying for GOD to expose those things we need to see; And we’re praying for, not just a man, but the RIGHT Man for us.

You need biblical examples? Come here Ruth. Come here Esther. Come here Rebekah. These were ALL wise Women of GOD who sought the LORD for their relationships and their destinies….

Change your mental and spiritual perspective, Ladies! You are the Prize, not an option. Talk to your DADDY about him, and listen to what DADDY says – Yes or No. Now, let him pursue you as you pursue GOD! Love YOU!

Philippians 4:6-7

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of GOD, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.


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